zaterdag 3 november 2007
Zo richt je je vrouw af
De populaire Saoudische versie van Dr. Phill, huwelijksexpert en iman Al-'Arifi legt in een tv-uitzending ter gelegenheid van ramadan aan jongeren uit hoe je vrouwen moet africhten: eerst negeren, vervolgens een paar nachten in een andere kamer gaan slapen en dan slaan, want:
'Allah made the body of men stronger than the body of women ... Therefore, while the man may use beating to discipline his wife, she sometimes uses her tears to discipline him. He gets what he wants by screaming, while she gets what she wants from him by crying and displaying emotions'.
-Maar hoe moet je dan slaan?
'The beatings must be light and must not make her face ugly ... He must beat her where it will not leave marks. He should not beat her on the hand... He should beat her in some places where it will not cause any damage. He should not beat her like he would beat an animal or a child -- slapping them right and left'.
-Gelukkig kan er ook nog een waarschuwing van af:
'Unfortunately, many husbands beat their wives only when they get mad, and when they start beating, it as if they are punching a wall – they beat with their hands, right and left, and sometimes use their feet. Brother, it is a human being you are beating'.
Saoudische logica: dieren en kinderen mag je in het gezicht slaan, maar vrouwen niet, want dat zijn levende wezens.
Filmpje:
http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1594.htm
'Allah made the body of men stronger than the body of women ... Therefore, while the man may use beating to discipline his wife, she sometimes uses her tears to discipline him. He gets what he wants by screaming, while she gets what she wants from him by crying and displaying emotions'.
-Maar hoe moet je dan slaan?
'The beatings must be light and must not make her face ugly ... He must beat her where it will not leave marks. He should not beat her on the hand... He should beat her in some places where it will not cause any damage. He should not beat her like he would beat an animal or a child -- slapping them right and left'.
-Gelukkig kan er ook nog een waarschuwing van af:
'Unfortunately, many husbands beat their wives only when they get mad, and when they start beating, it as if they are punching a wall – they beat with their hands, right and left, and sometimes use their feet. Brother, it is a human being you are beating'.
Saoudische logica: dieren en kinderen mag je in het gezicht slaan, maar vrouwen niet, want dat zijn levende wezens.
Filmpje:
http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1594.htm
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